it’s a match! light it up.

Online dating. sighhhh.. While being home in North Carolina me and one of my girlfriends went to the Durham Bulls baseball game. One of the sponsors on the outfield wall was which led to us getting on the subject of online dating. Match, eHarmony, something-cupid, tinder, etc and how hard it is to meet […]

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a simple fix.

I am sitting on my mama’s couch in North Carolina wanting to write a blog so bad. There is so much on my mind, so much I want to say and so much I enjoy writing about. I’ve started 4 different drafts of various topics but nothing is jiving right now. It’s crazy how that […]

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basically the best day, EVER!

Imagine a day where you feel bloated, minimal makeup, frumpy clothes, quit your job, and at the end of a long workday – you and your girlfriends want to go grab a drink to catch up and chat. Imagine all of that and add walking into a bar and sitting right smack dab in the […]

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detox/cleanse lemonade

I’m not really into the juice cleanses that everyone is into. I tried one once for 3 hours and it was the worst 3 hours of my eating career. Really, it was torture. I need substance and I need carbs. That being said, I did want to try a juice that would be good for […]

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30 things to do before you’re 30

30 things to do before you’re 30  Well.. 30 days from now I will be the big 3-0. I’m not scared… I’m excited, I’ll be celebrating in NYC with some of my best friends. No complaints here! I thought it would be fun to create a list of 30 different things to do each day […]

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blonding (blonde blogging)

  I’m not a writer. Never have been. I’m terrible with punctuation, spelling, run-on sentences and I was the worst english student EVER! Not kidding… That being said, for whatever reason I have grown to love blogging. So freaking much. It’s like writing in a diary or something and being able to vent to so […]

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food prep made E-A-S-Y!

I love cooking but I hate doing dishes. I love taking my lunch but I hate preparing it the morning of. If you are anything like me and feel the same, I have the perfect solution for you. I like to meal prep on Sunday’s normally. sunday funday, right? I always lost my Tupperware lids, […]

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guy post

honest hour with ‘chad’!

An honest guy. Do they exist anymore? Is the guy you’re dating or talking to or fooling around with really that great of a guy he’s led you to believe? C’mon, we’ve all heard it before “I’m different”, “I wouldn’t hurt you”, “you can trust me”.. blah bah blah. But really, is HE really capable […]

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heart calls

ask a guy anything!

Ladies! (& gents if yall secretly read this too)! Apparently the dating blog post was my popular one yet. Who knew dating was such a nightmare to so many people? Kidding, I think we all know that it’s hard and not THAT fun sometimes. I was talking to one if my good guy friends and […]

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