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it’s the small stuff

The small things in life are what matter most. I think we would all agree. When I talk to my girlfriends, whether they are single, dating someone casually, married, or in a long term relationship most of the complaints are all the same. We just want a guy to do the small stuff. Is it […]

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dating multiples..

Ok, time for a 3pm coffee break on this rainy Wednesday… Something I’ve struggled with so much is casual dating. How to date, the right way to date, is it ok to date 2 people at once, HOW to date more than one person without feeling shady or like you’re doing something wrong. I am […]

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Meet me by the coffee pot..

Work life/home life balance… is there a such thing? The average American, works a lot. We spend most of our lives working. Being a grown up is fun. Who signed us up for this?? But when you work all of the time and you are single chances are you’ll meet some singles at work too. […]

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The first card represents you..

While in New York we decided to go to a psychic. JUST FOR FUN mom, relax. It was on my 30 things to do before I am 30 and my girlfriend Vanessa knew of a place by her house. I’ve never been to a psychic and I’ve never had a tarot card reading or anything […]

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the boy, the guy, the man

We all have had relationships. The good, the bad, the ugly. With those relationships there are guys that know how to treat you, say how to treat you and act out how they should treat you. Talking to one of my girlfriends tonight we were talking about how different guys make us realize different things […]

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countdown to 30, in years!

As I am closing my last week as a 20 something, I wanted to dedicate a post to each year of my 20’s. I don’t remember everything about every age but just like everyone else there are big things that happen to us. Some good, some bad. I would like to think I had a […]

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Fool me once

  Blind dates… they’re just as terrible as they sound. Relax.. I’m sure some of you out there have met your soulmate on a blind date but generally speaking I feel like they’re terrible. I’ve been on one. That was the end of that. A friend of mine told me about this guy. He’s cute, […]

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too many chances!

“The problem is women think he will change, he won’t. Men make the mistake of thinking she will never leave, she will.” The other night my neighbor, Lindsey, and I went out to a few local places to try. We started off going to a new place called ‘Brick and Mortar” on Central Ave in […]

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Bring your own alcohol but mama will invite the Whiskey..

Huh, right? A few of you have asked me about Whiskey. Are we talking? Are we not? And a few have asked who the heck is he?! Hilarious that my dating life has captured an audience. I kind of like it, not going to lie. Basically, it’s cheap therapy and my friends get to keep […]

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it’s a match! light it up.

Online dating. sighhhh.. While being home in North Carolina me and one of my girlfriends went to the Durham Bulls baseball game. One of the sponsors on the outfield wall was match.com which led to us getting on the subject of online dating. Match, eHarmony, something-cupid, tinder, etc and how hard it is to meet […]

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