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Stop wasting time on wasting time!

Because, no one wants to waste any time. On anything. The feeling of time or energy ‘wasted’ is a miserable feeling. It can be from a relationship, a project at home like painting your kitchen the perfect shade of green that turns out like baby shit or a dead-end job. Wasted time sucks on ANYTHING. […]

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Be my valentine?

Happy Valentine’s Day, Loves! It can be a great day or it could be a horrible day. And I’ve had both. As a matter of fact, last year I was in a wedding and me and my boyfriend had just broken up the day before. And we met during her bachelorette party so it was […]

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better late than never?

Well, a few have asked about my dating situation since some know I’ve been dating someone lately. Ha, ironic since I have a dating blog site pretty much about dumb things guys do. But I guess there’s a good one in every crowd, right? Finally. It’s about time. Soooo I wanted to write a blog […]

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surprise!

I honestly don’t even know where to start this post. It’s Friday night and I had plans to meet my friends Angela, Scottie and Mike for dinner. We get to Mike and Scotties and headed to the restaurant and my mama was watching my niece and nephew and they were texting me so my mind […]

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North Carolina, keep callin me home….

First of all, Happy New Year! I know it’s been a while since I have blogged. A few of you have asked why haven’t I posted in a while? Well…with the Holidays and work and traveling to North Carolina for the Holidays…. I basically blinked and it was 2016! A lot has happened and a […]

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Pay it Forward! (without paying anything)

December is a time of gift giving and going broke. Well it can seem like it. You know that saying: “Be kind to one another. Each of us carries a burden that others can’t see.” My mama has the at the bottom of her emails so every day while we email I see it.. Over […]

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Happy Thanksgiving!

Thanksgiving – food, family, friends, beer, football, wine, food, football…. That’s what the day usually consists of for most Americans. But really it’s a day to be thankful so it seems fitting and very cliché to do a thanksgiving post, I know…. But as most of us, we don’t think about what we should be […]

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“Tricked you to a wedding, so take a Treat”

Just a regular Sunday browsing Facebook.. Occasionally I will look at the ‘birthday’ tab to see who has a birthday coming up so with that tool and knowing one of my friends has always loved Halloween – I always remember her birthday is on that day. The next day – I noticed her in a […]

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the single girl struggle

Most people think being hit on in a bar or when you’re out is a huge compliment. And sometimes it is. But there are times you just want to be out with your friends and not be hit on. Not to sound conceited or cocky and I’m speaking for many women not just myself but […]

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thirty, you sexy beast. come on over!

Well, here it is.. I’m no longer staring 30 right in the face, I AM 30. It’s finally here. I remember as a kid thinking my mama was SO old at 30. I was 8. Man, do times change.  Man, does our attitude, outlook and perspective in life change. I’m sitting in my bed right […]

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